Thank you stumpy! I have seen you been giving very helpful advise on this forum. thank you. Can I ask, you say you have not heard any cases of this law for some time. Do you consider yourself have a good connection and know quite some about "the foreigner community" in Laos? I also read, beside fines, you pay the police, you can also get jailed. Have you ever heard of this? I mean, what can the consequences be? my relationship with my girlfriend is very good. I'm just worried that everything will so difficult for us. But I will try my best. In general, how do you get your name on the family book? Is the family book more importent then the birth certificate? Can you maybe describe what a family book is? Thanks
Although there is a law in place forbidding sexual relationships between unmarried couples I have not heard of it being enforced for a long time now. How is your relationship with your Lao girlfriend ? If is is shaky and she wishes to keep your daughter and have nothing to do with you, then it would be easy for her, or one of her friends, to go to the police. On the other hand, if all is well and you do not spend nights with her and she is amenable to your daughter getting citizenship, all should be okay. As your name is not registered as the child's father in the family book you will have to go to court.
Hello, I'm a Swedish citizen having a Lao girlfriend and daughter. Now, we are planing for our future togheter. But have many concerns. I have not been back to Laos from the time I meet my girlfriend. By that time, for many reasons we decided to live seperate life's. And I was not in Laos when our daughter was born. This mean, I do not have my name on my daughters birth certificate. I have been told by the Swedish embasssy, I will need to go to court in Laos to get an official court decision on my status of father to my daughter. As this will be needed somehow if I would like to apply for citizenship for my daugther. But actually more importent. I am very worried about the law forbidding foreigner to have relationship with Lao citizen. I'm quite afraid of going there for this reason. From what I have read, you can be fined for this. But even jailed and deported! As I have a daughter. How serious is this? Me and my girlfriend are not married. Even if I do not cross the line this time, do not spend nights with my girlfriend or anything sexual. Can the police arrest me for having a daughter? Thank you for sharing your experience.
Because they're tired of voting for the same party for the last 50 years? A party that lives in the past when it was and is still OK to jail the opposition. If they're that good, why do they actually need to sue and jail their critics?